Is this not pictorial abuse? I feel violated every time i encounter such images. Its worse than being called a Chiquita/chick.
Its fatiguing to debate over who (man/ woman) and why. whoever does it irrespective of gender, do they not understand that its not turning on but turning off, humiliating, debasing and infuriating. Its trashing our sensibilities, dignity; it makes me feel like a second rate citizen- a woman in a penile world. A body part, a commodity: everything that generations of women have fought against and risen above.
If its a man- i am ashamed for you. If its a woman (which i pray is not): i am very ashamed that you are born amongst us.